Looking for a heartwarming and heartbreaking story to round off your summer reading list? Helder’s Story is one with dignity and possible controversy. But as the reader, you can decide. Please enjoy my interview below with the author.
Your book, Helder’s Story was released by Brother Mockingbird in July, what was it like working with a small publishing house?
It was a wonderful experience. It was a dream come true to have the book published by someone who was touched by the story, and sensed a connection with our family life. Working with a small publishing house made that possible. I think it also makes a difference that the publisher herself was naturally caring and personable, as well as knowledgeable and bright. I felt she had me in her best interest, and that was important to me.
As a medical social worker I come in contact with many clients who don’t wish to keep going because of their disease(s). Yet, it’s a hot topic, and everyone tip-toes around it. Were you concerned that sharing Helder’s Story might bring some backlash from those who disagree with the choice?
Absolutely. There was a moment I had to pause and recognize what I’m getting myself into. Eventually I concluded, the choice is not one I might make personally for myself. However, it is one that should be made available to everyone, whether you choose to exercise it or not. I guess you can call me pro-choice. That awareness enabled me to move forward, in spite of my concerns.
Why should a reader, who disagrees with aid-in-dying medication, read Helder’s Story?
Great question! One of the goals of writing the book was to lay the foundation so people can understand why someone would make that decision. There are so many variables involved which makes it a very individualized and personal decision. However, that wasn’t the only goal. The book has a strong message of encouragement, hope and perseverance. Finding spirituality in your life is another ongoing theme in the book. There is really so much more to Helder’s Story then the end result.
What were your children’s’ reactions to Helder’s Story being published?
They are still getting use to the idea that Mom wrote a book! They all agree it feels so right and so good to honor Dad’s life in this way. It’s very much in line with his philosophy – to share our experience, strength and hope in that it may help someone else.
The artwork for the cover is subtle and serene, what was the determining factor to make THAT the cover?
Helder loved nature. He had a spiritual connection with the outdoors that was both invigorating and healing. Having that conveyed through the artwork fits the story and him well.
What most do you expect readers to take away from this story?
I expect readers will relate to the hurts and triumphs in their own lives. The book touches on so many different issues – there’s something for everyone! In the end, I expect readers will feel inspired. That inspiration will take form in many different ways.
Do you have a background in writing? Are other books in the works?
A part from poetry writing in my teen years, I do not. I have been journaling for many years, and writing my thoughts and feelings are a daily part of my own growth and spirituality. While I was writing, I was vigilant about keeping the focus on Helder. Many times it occurred to me, my own background and heritage, seeped in shame and racial biases, has a story that should be told. Helder’s Wife perhaps?
Looks like we might have another story in the works for sure! Thanks for reading!
It is also available on Amazon.
And bonus for southern California residents, she has an upcoming author appearance!!!